I spend a few minutes asking them about their plans for their birthday and about their families. I, also, ask them for a few words of wisdom- How have they stayed healthy as they've aged? This is one way to get to know your participants and to help participants grow closer.
Sometimes I change things up. I use the following poem and give the birthday person a copy of it on a bookmark, which I make. On their copy, I use their name. I give everyone in class a copy and we read the poem to the birthday person. I love the words to this poem and feel that every person's life should be treasured!
Here's this special poem:
Celebrating You on Your Birthday
by Star Nakamoto
We hope you know
just how much your life means
to those around you-
how their days are brighter
because you are here.
Your presence adds something
special and invaluable to the world.
You bring joy to those
who know you and a smile
to everyone you meet.
Your life is a gift
that is treasured.
Happy Birthday Dear Friend!
